Over the past few months, the news has been flooded with stories about people committing adultery. It’s really sad and I hope it’s not an indicator of the way our society is headed.
First, you had Jon and Kate plus 8 and their drama.
I guess that was his Father’s Day present to himself…
What is going on here? Why are so many people cheating on their spouses?
Cheating is the easy way out. It is easier to say yes to your flesh than to maintain good morals.
Cheating comes with consequences. What you do in the dark will come to the light and many times, it’s not pretty when it comes out!
Many people are calling for Gov. Sanford’s resignation. His political career is on the rocks. His marriage is in danger and his children have to deal with the fallout of his bad choices.
The Steve McNair situation is as ugly as it gets. He was once remembered for being a great football player, but now, he will be remembered as the man who was cheating on his wife and was murdered by his girlfriend.
I think it is safe to assume that this isn’t the legacy he wanted to leave for his family and friends.
I really feel for McNair’s wife and children. There are reports that his wife didn’t know he had a girlfriend on the side.
In addition, Nashville police have made statements that Kazemi suspected McNair of cheating on her with another woman. This was devastating to her because she had believed that he was going to leave his wife for her!
News Flash#1…If a man is cheating on his wife with you, then watch out!There is a 99.9% chance that he is going to do the same thing to you.
News Flash#2…He’s not going to leave his wife. You are just a cheap thrill.
We as women have to raise our standards and not be content with playing second fiddle. Married men are off limits. You deserve better than to share a man with anyone!
We really need to get back to the basics.
When God created Adam, he saw that he needed a suitable helpmeet. So what did he do? He created Eve. Not Eve and another woman on the side for Adam. God only created ONE woman.
Think about what happened when David committed adultery with Bathsheba. He knew that Bathsheba was married, but he didn’t care. He still slept with her.
When she got pregnant, he tried to cover his tracks and sent her husband Uriah out to the heat of the battle with the intent of him getting killed. God wasn’t pleased with this and the child that was conceived between David and Bathsheba died. There were other judgments that were pronounced against David too as a result of his indiscretion. You can read more about it in 2 Samuel 11.
Guard your thought life. Remember, everything starts with a thought. When David saw Bathsheba, he lusted after her and acted on his thoughts.
Please, don’t even entertain the idea of being with another person because it can easily lead to major problems. I wrote a post about this back in March called Emotional Infidelity. Feel free to check it out.